“Celibacy: A Transcended/Transformed Sexuality,” written by Fr Alex Pulimoottil SDB and privately circulated in 2021 from Don Bosco, Dibrugarh, delves into the intricate relationship between celibacy and sexuality. The book explores the challenges and complexities associated with celibacy, the importance of celibate friendships, and the process of psycho-sexual integration.
Fr Alex Pulimoottil SDB compiled the content of the book from his retreat talks, aiming to demonstrate the interconnectedness of celibacy and sexuality. The central thesis is that a person can live celibacy with joy and happiness only when they possess a well-integrated understanding of their sexuality. Emotional balance plays a crucial role in establishing healthy celibate friendships, wherein individuals make conscious choices compatible with their own identities and those of others.
The book argues that sexuality is a call to self-transcendence in love, which can manifest either within the context of celibacy or married life. Celibacy, in particular, is presented as a unique pathway to expressing love and experiencing a transformed sexuality. It emphasizes that celibacy is not a denial or suppression of sexual desires, but rather a higher calling to love in a transcendent manner.
Furthermore, “Celibacy: A Transcended/Transformed Sexuality” serves as a helpful guide for formators in assisting candidates towards psycho-sexual integration. It offers valuable insights, practical advice, and perspectives on how individuals can navigate the complexities of their sexual identity within the context of celibacy.
By exploring the interplay between celibacy and sexuality, Fr Alex Pulimoottil SDB aims to provide a resource that promotes a deeper understanding and appreciation of the transformative nature of celibacy. The book seeks to facilitate emotional maturity, self-awareness, and healthy relationships, enabling individuals to embrace celibacy as a path of love and self-transcendence.
“Celibacy: A Transcended/Transformed Sexuality” offers a comprehensive exploration of the complexities surrounding celibacy and sexuality. It serves as a valuable resource for individuals discerning or living a celibate lifestyle, as well as for formators seeking to guide and support candidates on their journey towards psycho-sexual integration.
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